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Rather than being scorned for being promiscuous, a woman is lauded for being promiscuous. One thing that makes life "interesting" for us humans is that many societies and Anglophone culture in particular, as very distinct from Francophone contain a fundamental tension when it comes to sex:. This applies to both sexes. Both men and women fall in love, are tempted to cheat on their partners, and feel jealousy when they suspect their partners are cheating on them. If you know that someone has had sex with many different people, this makes them attractive for a one-night-stand, because it suggests that it will be easy to get them into bed and that they will probably be good in it, but it makes them poor prospects for a long-term relationship; they didn't "settle down" with anyone else, so they probably won't settle down with you.
Conversely, someone who has carefully guarded their "innocence" is more likely to remain faithful once in a relationship, but they aren't going to settle for anything less than True Love, either. Again, this, too, applies to both sexes. In other words, in spite of its other benefits, sleeping around will tend to make it harder to find a steady, long-term relationship.
Except in fiction. Some writers generally want to have characters that have sex, and a lot of it, with many different people. Sexual jealousy, and the desire not to provoke it in others, provides a reason for characters not to have sex, so it tends to be one of those things that get swept under the rug. Or, in some cases, less HandWaved and more actively constructed as bad : often because of an erroneous assumption that jealousy inevitably le to Domestic Abuse it doesn't, the reasons for abuse are very complicated.
In these stories, it's often the case that a man falls in love with a woman as a long-term partner specifically because she is promiscuous , and even encourages her to sleep with other men after they are married. These stories take the My Girl Is Not a Slut trope, turn it upside down, throw it out the window, stomp on it, set it on fire, and then bury it at the bottom of the ocean. Their girl IS a slut , and they prefer it that way.
In fact, prior to the 20th Century it was almost exclusively applied to male characters because of the Double Standard although the norm was always just for the woman to accept it, rather than actively encourage it. This is in no small part because of the psychological connection between male sexuality and battle prowress.
A man who slept with lots of people male or female in many societies was pd to be a good warrior, and vice versa. The Hero was either portrayed, or simply implied, to Really Get Around as evidence of his skills. Though the Chaste Hero is equally Older Than Dirt , in older stories other characters will tend to assume this trope is in effect and be surprised or even offended by his lack of interest. Please note that use of the trope in this manner le to the Unfortunate Implication that a man is not good enough unless he's getting laid constantly: a Mind Screw that can cause a lot of unnecessary pain and heartache for real life men and women.
This can sometimes be Truth in Television. Swingers are people in committed relationships that have sex with other people that are also in the swinging lifestyle. In an open relationship, the partners are permitted to have sex outside of the relationship with whomever they wish, though it is usually understood to be "just sex.
And there are various other reasons why a partner's infidelity, or the potential for infidelity, might make a someone more interested rather than less. The Other Wiki has an article on the subject. The polyamorous community also employs the term compersion for an empathetic experience of happiness and joy an individual experiences when another individual experiences the same emotions; this can occur not merely in the context of sex but also romantic relationships.
Compersion often coexists with jealousy because relationships are complex. Please limit examples to mainstream fiction. There's no point in mentioning any of the millions of "hot wife" stories that can be found on erotic fiction sites.
Community Showcase More. Follow TV Tropes. You need to to do this. Get Known if you don't have an . Winston: Listen. The more men you've had, the more I love you. Do you understand that? Julia: Yes, perfectly. Winston: I hate purity, I hate goodness! I don't want any virtue to exist anywhere. I want everyone to be corrupt to the bones. Julia: Well then, I ought to suit you, dear. I'm corrupt to the bones. Discussed in the English Leather commercials of the s. In this ad , a very attractive , liberated woman describes the kind of men who gain acceptance into her stable of studs before saying " All my men wear English Leather or they wear nothing at all.
They actually did try settling down prior to Lupin III: Part 5 but both of them found it too restrictive and dull, so they soon went back to their promiscuous ways. Comic Books. Gender Flipped in Star Wars: Legacy. As such, she doesn't appear to mind him sleeping around as long as she knows about it there's a brief scene where the two of them are shown frolicking with several other Zeltron women , she'd just really rather it not include Darth Talon. Kalash93 used this in Relax to illustrate the closeness of the relationship between Haye and Klee, who is a prostitute.
He loves her deeply and has absolutely no problems with her chosen profession. The nature of their relationship would lead most to thinking this is the case, when it's actually subverted. Heather herself is actually ashamed of her sexual history though masks it well, Cody on the other hand focuses less on the fact that she has history and more on the fact that she chose him despite it.
Though what it shows is certainly the most chaste foursome of all time. In Caddyshack Danny becomes infatuated with Lacey and he becomes more attracted to her after Maggie tells him about her reputation. Lacey later picks up Danny and takes him to bed.
The two are then making love. During their pillow talk , Lacey's giggling shows approval of what he just said after Danny tells her: "I want you to know that just because of this you don't have to stop seeing other people. Ben: Jackhole, you're not playing Deathquake. This is the real world. Cindy: I'ts Ben's pathetic concept of cool, just to pretend he's not afraid.
Ben: Hello, Cindy Freud. What's your concept of cool? Bang the entire class starting with "A"? Cindy: If I'm what you just said, why do you try to hook me up nonstop? Crow : So, Mike, I learned from today's movie that Daphne was a slut, and Amy wasn't fun until she became a slut. Mike Nelson : Well, that's the fun message of today's movie!
Many of John Donne 's poems and essays are about how wonderful women are who sleep around. Seeing as how this is John Donne, see Unreliable Narrator it's difficult to tell whether he was being serious or sarcastic. Throughout history, people have argued both ways. Think I'd want a wife who could only do it with a broom handle? It's the monogamous ones like Arevin in Dreamsnake who tend to stand out. Anita Blake. Although this surprisingly never reaches the heart of the trope.
It's presented as vital to Anita's political, physical and metaphysical safety that she have an ever-expanding pool of men, and partly due to her powers modifying them the reactions of the men in her life to this fact vary from blissed-out indifference to very grudging acceptance with occasional tantrums In the Riley Jensen, Guardian series by Keri Arthur, which one might say was "inspired" by the Anita Blake books, the main character is a werewolf, and werewolf society is very blase about sex, due to werewolves basically going "on heat" every full moon.
Riley's romantic interests tend to take this poorly, though Riley's attitude is like it or lump it. He was parodying the love poetry of the era, which described women as virginal and unattainable. In The Bible , Hosea is asked by God to marry a prostitute named Gomer, despite knowing that Gomer would cheat on him even having to be literally bought back from another man , as an object lesson to the people of Israel who had fallen into corruption and idolatry. Hosea does so willingly. All characters in Brave New World , having their first sexual experiences long before puberty.
And society considers monogamous relationships to be an unusual perversion. In fact, Lenina was criticized by her friend for not being slutty enough. Henry, Lenina's semi-regular partner, is always curious about who else she goes out with. He jokes that he doesn't have a problem with her having sex with other women, but wants to be her only man. At the end, he gives in, saying she can sleep with anyone she wants, as long as she comes home to him.
And damn if she's open-minded. She gives the protagonist a lecture about healthy bestiality relationships at one point when he dares to be offended. Applies to Caesar and Servilia's relationship in the Emperor series. When they meet, Servilia is a prostitute, and there's never any evidence that Caesar has a problem with her keeping up that profession while they're together.
Similarly, Servilia doesn't mind his sleeping with other women - in fact, she encourages him to marry a young, fertile woman so he can have a son. A relationship doesn't really get more open than that When a woman's lover has a very ificantly higher social status than herself, possession often takes the back seat to affiliation, which she wouldn't dare endanger.
The benefits outweigh the costs, especially for individuals as sexually practical as prostitutes. Furthermore, the Romans, especially patricians, had an extremely fun-rather-than-procreation perception of sex. What makes it a bit ironic is that while Caesar's first wife is still alive he remains completely faithful to her, even when she is unable to have sex with him, and when they are apart.
In Flowers for Algernon Charlie doesn't particularly mind Fay having many partners before and during their relationship because they were more Friends with Benefits anyway. In The Great Gatsby , when he first met her, Gatsby believed that Daisy's past history with many men made her "valuable. But they're still each other's best friend and confidante, and she is heartbroken when he dies. Winston even at one point says, "The more men you've been with the more I love you. Poseidon and Amphitrite has this kind of relationship in Seeds by M.
They remain married, while each has occasional lovers on the side. The arrangement works because they agreed on everything at the beginning and are actually very happy with each other, as opposed to Zeus and Hera. In general, many of Heinlein's books had characters that were pretty big on "free love". In Job: A Comedy of Justice , it's implied that parental incest is itself a cool and groovy thing by the wife of the protagonist's best friend, in regard to their teenage daughter.My slutty girl
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