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A note about pronouns and other forms of address before I begin:. As a male, cisgendered, heterosexual D-type, I only take female submissives on. Because of this, I tend to refer to s-types using female pronouns and D-types using male pronouns. As with everything else I write, these pronouns should be taken to refer ONLY to the dynamics within House Unicron and varied as appropriate to your specific dynamic, gender and orientation or lack of same. If you are a female D-type with a coterie of male s-types, flip the script as appropriate for your own situation.
Each and every one of them is a strong, capable female in her own right, makes her own way in the world and has earned the right to my time, care, attention, discipline and love by demonstrating the genuine maturity, desire and will to become the best woman and submissive she can be. I say this only because I would not be misunderstood as to my meaning or stance on these forms of address, and wish to clarify my position accordingly at the outset.
House Unicron is a hierarchical polyamorous House. The hierarchy I have established serves my needs and that of my girls, and establishes a progression based upon seniority, training and ongoing role negotiation. I do not give my girls anything. Collars, names and position are not bestowed as a matter of right within my House. Everything they have and receive from me, they earn, for better or worse, and the House hierarchy reflects this and their individual standings.
On paper, the organization of the House runs as follows:. Skwirly: As the first slave of House Unicron, she is considered the Primary. In practice, this rarely becomes an issue as her permanent address is 1, miles away. She enjoys the most leeway but the least margin for error of my girls. Sparrow: Sparrow inhabits a role somewhere between a full slave and a mere submissive. She is Secondary on paper, but in practice serves as my right hand on matters regarding training and House management, because she has spent more continuous time on both sides of the slash than anyone else in the House and demonstrates sound judgment in such matters.
She enjoys a longer leash but less leeway than Skwirly. Kitten: Kitten is the newest addition to House Unicron, and is Tertiary and my submissive in training. As such, she has the most room for error, but the shortest leash. She is still learning about herself and what she needs and wants out of the lifestyle, and I am deeply honored that she and her sisters within the House have chosen me to guide in their explorations. These names often make people do a double-take, especially when they know the provenance of my own lifestyle name.
By contrast, you may notice that all my girls have animal names, and not just any animals, but CUTE animals, goddamnit! As we discussed on TastyTuesday , naming and titling conventions are largely meaningless. They are labels that serve as a convenient shorthand, but they frequently miss the mark, or at best give a very one-dimensional view of the person to whom the name, label or title is attached.
I also believe, like many people do, that names have a unique power all their own that is largely independent of the precise configuration of letters and phonemes of which the names consist. Therefore, I believe that the naming of a submissive is something to be undertaken with exacting care and precision. Now, other D-types have their own conventions. You are MY slut and MY whore. There is a difference. I may call them my cock-sucking cum sluts. I may say things in scene that I would never consider issuing from my mouth outside of those confines.
However, outside of those confines, I need a name for each of my girls which is socially acceptable pet names being a common usage even in vanilla relationships but still reinforces the dynamic and her place within the House. More importantly, it is my belief that a woman who chooses to submit to her D-type is worthy of the utmost respect and care.
This sounds counterintuitive until you remember that in addition to being a cisgendered male, a D-type and a Sadist, I am also a feminist. I believe a woman should not be forced to do anything…UNLESS she willingly, enthusiastically and voluntarily chooses to adopt such a dynamic. Therefore, a name is the first and most evident criterion for how a D-type conducts himself with his s-types and what she can expect from him in terms of care, devotion and guidance, to my way of thinking.
Still, when she told me this on our first meeting, my response was a hard flinch and an immediate resolution to do better. She wanted to lose weight. She identified with birds. She has a cute, independent streak. Thus, Sparrow. As an interesting side note, she had been considering a tattoo of a sparrow for a year before we met, and I was pleased to be at her side when she finally got it done in February.
Skwirly was named for her somewhat skittish but playful personality, as well as a sketch from The Swedish Chef. In addition to establishing their positions beneath myself, they also indicate that you see your s-type for who and what she is and honor her for these things.
To do less, in my opinion, is to do yourself, your s-type s and your House a grave disservice. A name is the most important gift you can give your s-type, and it is not something that should be undertaken lightly. What are your naming conventions? Do you keep it only behind closed doors, or do you introduce her publicly under the name you have negotiated? Please leave a comment below, and be sure to check out our Grand Opening Blog Hop by clicking the ad on the right! With that disclaimer out of the way: House Unicron is a hierarchical polyamorous House.
A double standard, you say? Au contraire, mon cher ami! Like most of my conventions, the reason for this is simple if not immediately obvious. The name should reflect her primary personality traits and worldview. The name should reflect something she strives to be, become or attain. The name should NOT degrade or humiliate her.Female submissive names
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